"Flash forward 4 years. 9/11/05. My wedding day. People have asked on several occasions why we chose “that day” to get married. There are several reasons, many have nothing to do with 9/11. The way I saw it (and still do), it was our small gesture to show that we will move forward. We would not allow those events to hang over our lives like the dark clouds of smoke billowing from the towers. We would always remember those who died that day but most of all, we would never forget to live."